Our resistance speaks volumes.
Understanding why we say no to what we desire requires a knowledge of the paradox of growth, and the hidden allegiance behind it.
You know the saying "two steps forward, one step back." As a Systemic Family Constellation trainer and facilitator I have observed there is a strong energetic family component to this well-known phenomenon of growth. There is something about this work that the soul "gets it" that this is REAL change and the powerful bonds of the family field becomes very apparent.
We may experience resistance or vacillate, pulled back and forth, sometimes to the point where any and every excuse under the sun will come up and be brought to our attention. This happens so often, I now teach about this paradoxical phenomena of authentic growth.
Think about it, how many times have you been within reach of a goal, an exciting new opportunity, or maybe you have made a big breakthrough in life only to be pulled back into a place of frustration, stuck in the muck of repetitive patterns, or just the same old, same old.
Why is it we pray for guidance and change, and when it finally shows up we say no to it, or allow unexpected issues to stop us.
The Systemic Perspective has the answer to that age old question.We see and feel it in our Family Constellations, clearly visible.
The answer lies in an unconscious loyalty to the past.
We may try everything to succeed, self help, life coaching, self-mastery programs but beyond issues of fear or mistrust that things could actually be different, lies a hidden family allegiance to how it has been in the family. As part of humans unconscious longing for belonging, children will seldom dare to live a happier or more fulfilled life that their parents. We are the children, as well as our parents, grandparents, on back in our lineage.
This bond is powerful strong.
Through the Constellation process, what was hidden now is in plain sight. It is this deep allegiance to belonging, our heart in service to what has been that is operating in the vacillation and resistance.
The unconscious fear is that we will no longer belong, so we must carry on as it has been.
HERE IS WHAT IS IMPORTANT TO KNOW.
Until we transform the limitations our family inheritance of how it has been, we are bound and bonded to the past, out of love.
The bond is that strong, and that simple.
The depth of this connection is more powerful than you would imagine. It is primal and in our heart field and in our DNA and is connected to our survival as a species. Therefore it is the key to our evolution and growth.
HERE IS THE GOOD NEWS.
I have come to understand the level of resistance equals the magnitude of growth, and transformation available in a situation.
Our growth and evolution depends on stepping beyond the boundaries of family conscience.
Family Constellations do this by INCLUDING all that has been. This is the great paradox of authentic growth.
Quite simply through the Family Constellation Work we bring this awareness into full focus and practice. Committing to the Constellation process supports one through any resistance that may show up along the way. Any indecision, unexpected illness, family crisis, financial issues that shows up just as you are ready to move forward is seen as part of the process and included with respect to that allegiance.
Therefore it not as a reason to stop, rather it clarifies every reason to move forward to follow your souls path.
In other words; You have resistance? GREAT!
We know you are on the right track! AND we understand where it comes from.
Our family allegiance can be supportive as it was intended. The fact is when we clear and bring strength to the family system it transforms, and supports our growth and wholeness. Here is that paradox again. Ultimately our ancestors want us to thrive. Transforming family burdens to blessings is the profound gift of this work, allowing us to access the collective completeness and gifts of our lineage.
Our family allegiance can be supportive as it was intended. The fact is when we clear and bring strength to the family system it transforms, and supports our growth and wholeness.
Here is that paradox again. Ultimately our ancestors want us to thrive.
Transforming family burdens to blessings is the profound gift of this work, allowing us to access the collective completeness and gifts of our lineage.
If you have tried everything and are experiencing issues that persist, Family Constellations is for you. Unlike traditional therapy or healing process, the Constellation process as developed by Krista Jarrard gets directly to the heart of the matter. In a very specific manner Krista's work accesses solutions and transforms current day issues quickly and effectively.
If you struggle with; Persistent issues even after years of healing work.
Unexplained sadness, loneliness, fear, depression.
Failed relationships, Difficult children and family life.
Unresolved Grief, Chronic Illness, Unsuccessful career.
Family Constellations have the ability to stop this repetition of suffering, fostering long lasting, life changing results.
Experience the deep inner movement that releases conflict, and opens one to greater levels of well being and trust. Amazingly the healing in a Constellation moves into one's family and life without anyone else needing to be involved.
If you struggle with; Persistent issues even after years of healing work.
Unexplained sadness, loneliness, fear, depression.
Failed relationships, Difficult children and family life.
Unresolved Grief, Chronic Illness, Unsuccessful career.
Family Constellations have the ability to stop this repetition of suffering, fostering long lasting, life changing results.
Experience the deep inner movement that releases conflict, and opens one to greater levels of well being and trust. Amazingly the healing in a Constellation moves into one's family and life without anyone else needing to be involved.
Krista Jarrard, founder Center for Systemic Healing.
Krista Jarrard has been a dynamic force as facilitator, trainer and pioneer in the evolution of the Systemic Family Constellation work for over seventeen years. Krista brings a deep intuition and remarkable scope of wisdom to her practice with clients worldwide. Krista is passionate about supporting the current shift in consciousness by working with clients to transform their ener-genetic inheritance of the family linage. She has brought this multi-dimensional healing to clients around the world, and to international communities for awakening. She is the founder of the Center for Systemic Healing, and creator of Healing at The Heart of the Matter Immersion Learning Program.
Krista’s upcoming book “The Radical Act of Inclusion” reveals the secrets to her work with Inclusion.
Krista Jarrard has been a dynamic force as facilitator, trainer and pioneer in the evolution of the Systemic Family Constellation work for over seventeen years. Krista brings a deep intuition and remarkable scope of wisdom to her practice with clients worldwide. Krista is passionate about supporting the current shift in consciousness by working with clients to transform their ener-genetic inheritance of the family linage. She has brought this multi-dimensional healing to clients around the world, and to international communities for awakening. She is the founder of the Center for Systemic Healing, and creator of Healing at The Heart of the Matter Immersion Learning Program.
Krista’s upcoming book “The Radical Act of Inclusion” reveals the secrets to her work with Inclusion.
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